To cover up and
defend himself against his feelings of his inadequacy and incompetence, Bush
developed a number of psychological defenses. In his school years he played
the clown. (His ability to joke about his verbal slip-ups is an endearing
adult application of this defense to public life.) His heavy drinking was a
classic way to anesthetize feelings of inadequacy. Indeed, drinking
typically makes the alcoholic grandiose, which has led some commentators to
argue that Bush has the "dry drunk" syndrome, where the individual has
stopped drinking but retains the brittle psychology of the alcoholic. Other
defenses now play especially powerful roles to protect the president against
his internal feelings of insufficiency.
The Christian
Defense
Bush has carefully
let it be known that he believes the decisions he makes in office are
directed by God. His famous claim to make decisions by "gut" ("I'm a gut
player," he told Bob Woodward) equates with his claim of the spiritual
inspiration he receives through prayer, his own and the prayers of others.
Whatever else it is, this equation of his own choices with God's will has
unparalleled advantages. It creates the perfect defense against any doubts
he or anyone else might have that he can't make the right decision. The need
to engage in analysis and explore alternatives to get there comes off the
table. Instead, he has his gut; he has his God.
Being "born again"
also allows the president to present himself as having relegated to the past
all those previously inadequate behaviors of his younger days: the poor
academic performance, the drinking, the failed businesses. He's a new man,
no longer incompetent but now supremely competent as a result of his faith.
When Woodward
asked Bush if he had consulted his father before invading Iraq, he replied,
"He is the wrong father to appeal to in terms of strength. There is a higher
father that I appeal to." How wonderfully that appeal must seem to resolve
the internal conflict about adequacy we have described above.
The Bully
Defense
Bush's mother,
Barbara (sarcastic, mean, disciplinarian, always with an acid-tongued
retort), is probably the model for another major defense Bush deploys to
defend himself against feelings of inadequacy. A friend at the time
described her as "sort of the leader bully."
That bullies are
insecure people is well known and fairly obvious. A bully covers insecurity
with bluster and intimidation so that others won't find an opening to see
how weak he feels.
Much of the world
outside the US considers Bush a bully. "You're either with us or against us"
is a bully's threat that anyone can recognize. The Bush doctrine of
pre-emptive strikes is a bully's doctrine.
For his intimates
and those closer to home, Bush appears to be what is called an emotional
bully. An emotional bully gains control using sarcasm, teasing, mocking,
name calling, threatening, ignoring, lying, or angering the other and
forcing him to back down. Bush administration insider accounts describe this
sort of behavior from the president. He's well known for his dismissive
remarks. His penchant for giving nicknames to everyone has its dark, bully's
side. Naming people is a way to control them.
In report by Gail
Sheehy in 2000, recalled recently by New York Times columnist Maureen Dowd,
we get a glimpse of how Bush's pervasive fear of failure (his absolute
refusal to consider "failure as an option") and his bully defense go
together. Sheehy interviewed friends from his teenage years and college
years. In basketball or tennis games he would insist points be played over
because he wasn't ready; he would force opponents who had beaten him to
continue playing until he beat them. At Yale he would interrupt his fellow
students' studying for exams (helping them fail) to compete in a popular
board game, "The Game of Global Domination," at which he was the player
noted for taking the most risks, being the most aggressive.
It's likely that
speculations about Vice President Cheney, Donald Rumsfeld and Condoleezza
Rice functioning as Bush's puppet-masters are 180 (or at least 160) degrees
off. Bush is the president; he gets his way, and they know it. Chances are
they have learned to channel his "gut" and give him policy advice that
matches it. They may even imagine they are steering him, not clear about the
ways that he has bullied them, elicited in them "The Stockholm Syndrome," in
which hostages come to identify with and even defend the very person who is
threatening them. This is the same dynamic evident in the behavior of
battered spouses and members of gangs.
Ron Suskind
described the small group around the president: "A disdain for contemplation
or deliberation, an embrace of decisiveness - a sometimes bullying
impatience with doubters and even friendly questioners."
Biographical
reports tell us that Bush's parents taught him to keep his inner feelings to
himself. As psychiatrist Justin A. Frank noted in Bush on the Couch,
this results in a "self-protective indifference to the pain of others." This
is another aspect of his bully defense, projecting his inner pain onto
others. Bush's remarkable drive for the power to torture terrorist suspects
and his reported glorying in Texas executions during his terms as governor
testify to his lack of compassion, despite his recent statement of qualms
about seeing Saddam Hussein drop through the trap.
The Man of
Splits and Oppositions
Being in the
world, for all of us, involves the challenge to somehow integrate the
opposites of our nature and to select our way through the many opposing
choices presented us in life. The bully polarizes the natural ambivalence
(the internal opposition) anyone feels about whether he is strong or weak,
safe or vulnerable. A person who needs to feel invulnerable and completely
adequate all the time, or who always feels helpless and inadequate, has
polarized these emotions and leads a deformed life. The degree of internal
polarization in President Bush appears to be serious - and widespread.
Commentators have made lists of the president's polarities: the proclaimed
uniter who is a relentless divider, the habit of "saying one thing and doing
another," as Vermont Senator Jim Jeffords put it. The list is long and
growing. It should include the oppositions that show up in his famous
Bushisms, such as:
There is no doubt in
my mind that we should allow the world's worst leaders to hold America
hostage, to threaten our peace, to threaten our friends and allies with
the world's worst weapons.
They [the
terrorists] never stop thinking of ways to harm our country and our
people - and neither do we.
To a psychiatrist,
these are not mere malapropisms and mistakes in speech. They suggest
ambivalence oscillating violently between poles. They suggest a desperate
uncertainty about everything that the president reflexively seeks to hide by
taking absolutist, rigid positions about "victory," "success," "mission
accomplished," "stay the course," "compassion," "tax cuts," "no child left
behind," and a host of other issues.
The
Presidential Defense
Once Bush took the
bullhorn at ground zero, he found perhaps the ultimate defense for his
secret fears of inadequacy. As he told Bob Woodward, in Bush at War,
"I'm the commander - see, I don't need to explain - I do not need to explain
why I say things. That's the interesting thing about being the president.
Maybe somebody needs to explain to me why they say something, but I don't
feel like I owe anybody an explanation." As commander in chief, as a war
president, he could assemble his other psychological defenses around him. He
could split the world into good and evil and the country would follow. His
internal oppositions could be projected without much resistance from the
populace or his adversaries. He could be the gut-led, divinely inspired
"Decider," to save the country. He could project own internal fears of being
"discovered as a fraud" into a threat "out there" waiting to happen. He
could surround himself with loyalists whom he could emotionally bully,
creating a new family that would admire him and that he could control.
Meanwhile the ambiguities of political decisions that can always be
rationalized offer a safe haven. Until history judges me (and that's a long
way off, maybe never) I can't be definitively seen as incompetent.
But as much as the
presidency is a perfect defense for disguising incompetence, it's also the
perfect trap. It accelerates the positive feedback loop that was set in
motion when he "changed his heart" around age 40 (committing himself to God)
and presumably put his failures, and his feelings of failure behind him.
In recent weeks,
anyone following the news must have intuitively sensed from watching and
hearing the president that he would reject the Iraq Study Group's report,
co-authored by a person he must have felt was the emissary of his father
come to tell him that he had failed again. He chose escalation, the one
solution most knowledgeable people agree cannot succeed, in order to keep
alive the fiction that success still lies in the future.
The dynamic is
becoming obvious to almost everybody.
But how much is
Bush aware of this psychological dynamic and of the secret he's keeping? Not
aware enough. That's the problem. Psychotherapists use the term
"unconscious," but it isn't quite an accurate descriptor. We are aware of
feelings, sensations and scripts that occur when one of our unseen psychic
mechanisms is triggered. So, when an interviewer asked about the generals
who demanded Rumsfeld be removed, and the president knew his father had been
working behind the scenes to replace Rumsfeld, the question would not have
triggered the conscious thought: there goes dad again trying to make me feel
incompetent. Instead, the president may have felt a hollow sensation or a
flush of anger, an urge to form a clownish grin to cover his watery
feelings, and a script that would come out of his mouth as "I'm the
decider." Beneath that would be the inadequacy and cover-up dynamic outlined
here.
A president's
psychology and his inner secrets are his or her own business, except in one
important area. That is area covered by the question, "Does the psychology
of this individual interfere with his or her ability to make sound decisions
in the best interest of the nation?" Recent history has certainly been
witness to presidents with psychodynamics that have damaged their historical
legacies. Bill Clinton and Richard Nixon come to mind. But in neither case
was the very ability to make sound decisions compromised to the extent we
believe it is with this president.
A Failed
Process
Many accounts of
the president suggest that his decision-making process is a failed one; in
an important sense, it is no process at all.
Ambivalent
feelings are normal at certain stages of decision-making, and the ability to
tolerate ambivalence has been shown to be the hallmark of creative thinkers.
The inability to tolerate uncertainty because you think that may imply
incapacity brings decision-making to an end.
Thus, instead of
focusing on the process needed to arrive at a decision, Bush marshals his
defenses in order not to feel incompetent. That doesn't leave much room for
exploring the alternatives required of competent decision-making. Not
interested in discussion or detail (where the devil often lies), he seeks
something minimal, just enough so he can let the decision come to him; it's
his "gut" (read "God") that will provide the answer. But these gut feelings
are the very feelings associated with his deep sense of inadequacy and his
defenses against those feelings. So while he brags that he makes the "tough
decisions," psychologically, he's defending himself against the very
feelings of uncertainty that are the necessary concomitant to making tough
decisions. His tough decision-making is a sham.
In the recent
maneuvering toward the "new strategy" in Iraq, we have witnessed a great
pretense of normal decision-making. But the president clearly made up his
mind almost as soon as the "surge" alternative appeared, and apparently
moved to cow others, including his new secretary of defense Robert Gates
(his father's man) in the process. "Success" is the only alternative for
him. "Failure" and disintegration of Iraq is unthinkable because it would be
synonymous with his own internal disintegration.
As his decisions
go awry, he exudes a troubling, uncanny aura of certitude (though some find
it reassuring). He seems to expect to feel despised and alone (and probably
has always felt that), as he has always secretly expected to fail. That
expectation of failure leads to sloppy, risky, incompetent decisions, which
in turn compel him to swerve from his fears of incompetence.
At this point, the
president seems to have entered a place in his psyche where he is
discounting all external criticism and unpopularity, and fixing stubbornly
on his illusion of vindication, because he's still "The Decider," who can
just keep deciding until he gets to success. It's hard not to feel something
heroic in this position - but it's a recipe for bad, if not catastrophic,
decisions.
Psychologically,
President Bush has received support for so long because many have thought of
him as "one of us." Most of us feel inadequate in some way, and watching him
we can feel his inadequacies and sense his uncertainties, so we admire him
for "pulling it off." His model tells us, "If you act like you're confident
and competent, then you are." We are the culture that values the power of
positive thinking and seeks assertiveness training. We believe that the
right attitude can sometimes be more important than brains or hard work.
He's bullied us, too. We don't dare to really confront the scale of his
incompetent behavior, because then we would have to face what it means to
have such an incompetent and psychologically disabled decision-maker as our
president. It raises everyone's uncertainty. And that is, in fact, happening
now.
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John P. Briggs,
MD, is retired from over 40 years of private practice in psychotherapy in
Westchester County, New York. He was on the faculty in psychiatry at the
Columbia Presbyterian Medical Center in New York City for 23 years and was a
long-time member of the American Academy of Psychoanalysis. He trained at
the William Alanson White Institute in New York.
J.P. Briggs II, PhD, is a
Distinguished CSU professor at Western Connecticut State University and is
the senior editor of the intellectual journal The Connecticut Review. He is
author and co-author of books on creativity and chaos, including Fire in
the Crucible (St. Martin's Press); Fractals, the Patterns of Chaos
(Simon and Schuster); and Seven Life Lessons of Chaos
(HarperCollins), among others. He is currently at work with Philadelphia
psychologist John Amoroso on a book about the power of ambivalence in the
creative process.